Shame of a nation

Apr 30 2007  | Views 2039 |  Comments  (55)
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  AGMK posted 1 year ago

dear mam,
you are right, while travelling these incidents are common,
spcl, it look bad when young women wear torn cloths to beg,
 



  yash chhabra posted 1 year ago

I feel we have to draw a line between the deserving and nondeserving beggars. I mean we should donate to those who are physicaly handicap. I agree that it is a matter of shame for us. Our policy makers pats their back on rising sensex but they never bother  about  these poor people.



  K.B.S Ramachandra posted 1 year ago

Dear Radhika,

Thanks for your considered response to my earlier comment.

While not commenting about your prescription of giving to NGOs, I disagree with your advise not to give directly to beggars. I feel that such blanket policies only aid us become insensitive to the sufferings of the beggars. It helps us to look through them -- classifying all of them as "people who shouldn't be encouraged". I think that is the reason many people liked your article.

I have not seen much statistics / numbers about how many beggars the NGOs have rehabilitated. How much money is required to convert a beggar into an upright citizen? What is the success rate? How many of them stay upright? How many beggars are there and what proportion are the NGOs addressing. At the rate they are working, what is the time frame for us to have a beggarless society?

I would like you to handle these questions and then recommend that I don't give to a beggar.

When will the money you give to NGOs reach the children at Vijayawada and Warrangal railway stations. Imagine their deprived life that has driven these children to prostitutes. Can we hold those children-of-the-street to our middle-class morality. They are leading a hopeless life that we cannot  even think about. All I can do is provide some direct help. Please don't blame me for doing so.

My comment on eunuchs was general and not specifically to challenge you. There are countless unskilled jobs in the world today. I don't see a eunuch working anywhere (in any job). When was the last time you saw a eunuch working in a public place. I refuse to believe that all eunuchs are lazy and hence don't work. It is a clear case of discrimination based on gender (or the lack of it). When no one is willing to give them work, how can we expect that they should not beg or take to crime?  They act vulgarly because that way then can get some of us to part with some money.

What do you think of salesmen who want to sell us a variety of things that we don't need. Why do you call it work, when they are also trying to benefit personally from your money?

We live in an imperfect society. There are no sure fire ways of solving any problem without giving rise to another problem. While the experts are working, I would like to follow my intuition and provide direct assistance.

Best regards,
Ramachandra



  ramamoorthi posted 1 year ago

Yes, we can do our bit. But what are the politicians doing. Only where they can get the votes they just pretend action.  Our efforts must be to draw the attn of the govt to this area.  If  individuals keep doing the work, the politicians simply enjoy the benefits.



  cradhika posted 1 year ago

Dear Indology thank you for rating my blog as one of the best blogs of 2007. I hope my Sulekha friends think about the pros and cons whenever they are confronted by a beggar.
 
Dear K B S Ramchandra I thank you also for the critical comment you have made on my blog. I read your comment, gave a thought but still I am unable to agree your views. You say that when you give one rupee to a beggar kid, his stress will be reduced to some extent. But then his expectations will increase and he will never stop begging. This will become his way of life.
 
At Vijaywada and Warangal   railway stations there are many kids who beg from the passengers. Sometimes they resort to picking up things. And the next step you can just imagine. They can be pulled into gangs engaged in robbery, smuggling or drugs. I came to know that some of the kids contracted AIDS visiting the local prostitutes.
 
Regarding the eunuchs, I have no objection to employ them if they have the required skills. In my grandmother's house, there was a eunuch who used to cook and feed us all when we were kids. He was like a family member and we dare not make fun of him. I wrote a story about him published in "the Hitavada". Let us teach the eunuchs that acting vulgurly and begging is not the only way of life as permitted by our ancient culture. They too can live a dignified life.
 
yours
C.Radhika



  Indology posted 1 year ago

Dear Radhikaji,
Congratulations of writing this blog. I thank this will be the best blog of 2007.
We should not nurture beggars but we could remove their problems and habits of begging.
Please continute your thinking on such social problems.
Balaji Ganorkar
B L Institute of Indology



  K.B.S Ramachandra posted 1 year ago

Dear Radhika,

I think you have handled the issue quite superficially.
The beggar child is in a situation. One cannot change that. But by giving a rupee, one may reduce his stress atleast somewhat. Is the rupee not worth it?

A human has been reduced to the state of asking another. Just that is enough to give, if you can afford it. I say that if a grown up man comes and asks money for drinking liquor, even then by giving one is not perpetuating anything. By not giving, you aren't going to cure him of alchoholism. By giving, you may give him some comfort (temporary albeit).

You say don't give money to eunuchs. Are you willing to give a job (any job -- at your home / office) to a eunuch? How are they supposed to live when they are discriminated by the entire society?

There is no black and white in any of these complex issues. If we wait for NGOs or governments to fix the problem, its going to be a long wait. Also, beware that all money you give to NGOs may not really go towards the intended purpose.

Sorry about the harsh tone of this message.

Best regards,
Ramachandra



  sujim posted 1 year ago

Respected Ma'am
An enlightening post.
Regards



  Manjeet Panda posted 1 year ago

Hi Chandrika ma'm,
  You told the stark truth.Beggary is a blot in our nation's face.Specially when the world is taking interest in our each and every action.But madam, is it not near to impossible to avoid the hungry eyes of a naked child.Instead of denying I think that the NGOs and the government should take steps to reahabilate these beggars ans provide job for them and the law should nab the persons who make their living by making someone else to beg.
Manjeet Panda



  kolipakkam posted 1 year ago

Let us move just a bit away from begging.

When I travel by Tamilnadu Express, at two stations enroute a kid comes in with a brush to sweep the compartments and does more than a decent job (more decent than those travelers who dirty up the aisles, of course). He is not a Railways person. He does an honest job. But how many ‘pay’ him for the job he does? From experience, I will tell you that if he collected more than five rupees from one carriage he should consider himself lucky. Now, why would he not want to join the “beggar” mafia, given that he may “earn” more? Next, is giving him a rupee or two to be considered as patronizing beggars, after all he is not a “regular”? Answer these, please.





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