Shame of a nation
Railway stations, bus stations and every busy junction are inhabited by beggars who survive on the charity of the passer-by. This is more in metros and cities. Sometimes the travelers are shocked by the mode of begging. Every one knows that charity is a virtue. Some believe that charity is good for one’s progress or earn some “punya”. Some are genuinely concerned by the fate of the beggars and drop a coin or too. But does doling out few coins into the outstretched palms of the beggars can change their fate.
Near Paradise
junction of Secunderabad I see families of beggars surviving by the side of the roads. Small children hang around on the divider of the road. One faulty step and they may get crushed under the wheels. Sometimes they hang on to the door of the vehicle scaring the drivers. Who are the parents who force their little kids as young as two and three years into profession of beggar? Day by day I see increase in the population of beggars.
Sometimes children with deformities are made to sit by the side of the road begging. Once I saw a child begging in Majestic bus station of Bangalore
whose bums were burnt. Our charity is causing misery to this small child. Kids are kidnapped and tortured to earn as beggars. We become emotional when we see small kids and old people begging. And this is the reason that they are pushed into this profession by greedy parents and relatives who want to live off on their earnings.
At the traffic signals I observe the beggars begging. Not for a second the expression changes when the beggar gets a coin. He moves on automatically to next target. Our religious beliefs and soft heart makes us donate the money. But are we not responsible for breeding people who are lazy and look out for easy money. I remember as a child when I used to go to my aunt’s house in old city, a group of beggars would visit the shops holding an infant covered with blood. Sometimes women completely naked would go begging. Once my grand father gave away his shawl unable to witness the women naked. Next day the woman was in the same state begging in another area.
Sometimes the beggars scorn and throw insults if a person does not give any money. They in fact demand money from people as if it is their birthright. Sometimes they will pester people who are in hurry and will not leave them until they achieve their purpose. There are different tactics the beggars adopt to beg. We fall into the trap and the profession of beggary thrives which is a shame for the nation’s progress.
People who are interested in charity should not drop a coin and think that their role as a charitable person is over. They should donate to organizations which try to rehabilitate the beggars. Likewise there are many organizations which look after orphans and destitute people. Sometimes due to certain circumstances people are on the streets. Try to talk to them before giving something. Give them food or clothes instead of money. Show them some work so that they can earn money. This is true for people who migrate from villages to cities to earn a living. Sometimes mentally deranged people are on the streets. Feed them and report to the organization that can pick them up and take care of them.
There is no need to donate to eunuchs who behave vulgarly and demand money. Definitely they can use their body for physical work rather than begging. Certainly there can be some jobs suitable to them. I heard in Mumbai, they are doing good job of collecting money from loan defaulters.
Let us join hands in wiping the face of beggary in India. Let us feel proud when foreign dignitaries visit India
and do not find a single beggar to laugh at our poverty. Whenever I encounter a beggar I look the other way or just shake my head. Now the beggars know me and they don’t waste their time on me.
( I request my friends to go through the blog written by Ratan Dutta, "Why I give food and money to the beggars and..." ratandatta.sulekha.com )
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Thanks for your considered response to my earlier comment.
While not commenting about your prescription of giving to NGOs, I disagree with your advise not to give directly to beggars. I feel that such blanket policies only aid us become insensitive to the sufferings of the beggars. It helps us to look through them -- classifying all of them as "people who shouldn't be encouraged". I think that is the reason many people liked your article.
I have not seen much statistics / numbers about how many beggars the NGOs have rehabilitated. How much money is required to convert a beggar into an upright citizen? What is the success rate? How many of them stay upright? How many beggars are there and what proportion are the NGOs addressing. At the rate they are working, what is the time frame for us to have a beggarless society?
I would like you to handle these questions and then recommend that I don't give to a beggar.
When will the money you give to NGOs reach the children at Vijayawada and Warrangal railway stations. Imagine their deprived life that has driven these children to prostitutes. Can we hold those children-of-the-street to our middle-class morality. They are leading a hopeless life that we cannot even think about. All I can do is provide some direct help. Please don't blame me for doing so.
My comment on eunuchs was general and not specifically to challenge you. There are countless unskilled jobs in the world today. I don't see a eunuch working anywhere (in any job). When was the last time you saw a eunuch working in a public place. I refuse to believe that all eunuchs are lazy and hence don't work. It is a clear case of discrimination based on gender (or the lack of it). When no one is willing to give them work, how can we expect that they should not beg or take to crime? They act vulgarly because that way then can get some of us to part with some money.
What do you think of salesmen who want to sell us a variety of things that we don't need. Why do you call it work, when they are also trying to benefit personally from your money?
We live in an imperfect society. There are no sure fire ways of solving any problem without giving rise to another problem. While the experts are working, I would like to follow my intuition and provide direct assistance.
Best regards,
Ramachandra
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Dear Radhika,
I think you have handled the issue quite superficially.
The beggar child is in a situation. One cannot change that. But by giving a rupee, one may reduce his stress atleast somewhat. Is the rupee not worth it?
A human has been reduced to the state of asking another. Just that is enough to give, if you can afford it. I say that if a grown up man comes and asks money for drinking liquor, even then by giving one is not perpetuating anything. By not giving, you aren't going to cure him of alchoholism. By giving, you may give him some comfort (temporary albeit).
You say don't give money to eunuchs. Are you willing to give a job (any job -- at your home / office) to a eunuch? How are they supposed to live when they are discriminated by the entire society?
There is no black and white in any of these complex issues. If we wait for NGOs or governments to fix the problem, its going to be a long wait. Also, beware that all money you give to NGOs may not really go towards the intended purpose.
Sorry about the harsh tone of this message.
Best regards,
Ramachandra
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Let us move just a bit away from begging.
When I travel by Tamilnadu Express, at two stations enroute a kid comes in with a brush to sweep the compartments and does more than a decent job (more decent than those travelers who dirty up the aisles, of course). He is not a Railways person. He does an honest job. But how many ‘pay’ him for the job he does? From experience, I will tell you that if he collected more than five rupees from one carriage he should consider himself lucky. Now, why would he not want to join the “beggar” mafia, given that he may “earn” more? Next, is giving him a rupee or two to be considered as patronizing beggars, after all he is not a “regular”? Answer these, please.
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